Ralph Waldo Emerson stated that “It is a luxury to be understood” But how can we be understood if we don’t communicate? We have heard so many times, from so many different sources that communication is the key to marriage. … Continued
Many of you have seen the various makeover shows that are out there. Changes (sometimes drastic) are made to bring about a new, and more desirable result. There are some things that we desire in our marriages, and in order … Continued
Sometimes I have so much to say to Oli when he gets home from work. So much to share…so many needs that only he can fulfill (not just physical). But I’ve learned to give him time to unwind from the … Continued
I recently answered a question on Quora, and felt that it needed to be shared with everyone… Here is the question: Is it better to remain in a marriage of 40 years with a husband who loves you but you … Continued
I believe that there are a few essential components associated with lasting relationships, but I will speak on one that I have found to be extremely vital: You Are A Team! No matter what comes at you in your relationship, … Continued
What do you do when the fairy-tale life you envisioned is not being played out in your marriage? What do you do when issues arise that you never expected? How do you handle the disappointment that accompanies the fact that … Continued
This message is for the Husbands… It is very important for out wives to hear us say the words “I love you” So often we get caught up in our routines and although we show love by our actions, we … Continued
Do you have a married couple that you hang out with regularly? Has it made a difference in YOUR relationship? We feel that it is important to have married friends. It is beneficial to associate with couples that … Continued
As with home building, building a successful marriage takes some work. There are some fundamental components essential to ‘oneness’, such as communication, affection, quality time, acts of service, etc. Also, be sure to add any ‘amenities’ that tailor to YOUR … Continued
It has become a tradition of mine that every year I look back and share (in segments) the thoughts and feelings that I experienced during the events of our wedding weekend. I posted them on Facebook, on the respective days… … Continued